Learn How To Spice Up Relationships With Confidence!
Be the person who can spice up relationships and you'll get to watch your partner admire you! There's nothing more fun than knowing how spice up your sex life (and your partners too) - let these basic romantic tips guide you!
Before knowing how to spice up your sex life understand that a combination of:
- Improvising
- New experiences
- Feedback
Get the skills down and you will boost up your relationship experience!
Spice up Relationships by Improvising!
Do you know what the main ingredient to making relationships fun is? Humor! Get good at being funny!
"How?" You can start by watching funny improv comedy shows like 'Who's line is it anyway'.
If you're really serious about working on being funny I recommend taking improv comedy classes for a while!
That really worked for me and being funny at the right times and has definitely helped me spice up my sex life!
"What if I don't have money to join?" If you can't pay with money you can pay with time.
Start walking around while asking yourself "what's funny about this?" and watch that question make you come up with things that will make your and your partner laugh!
Spice Up Relationships by Creating The Right New Experiences!
What does your partner like to do? Don't know? Don't ask them! Asking them directly makes the experience predictable and predictable romantic tips won't do! ;-)
Instead, ask them indirectly! "How do we do that?" You're going to have to play 'detective'! Instead of asking them about what to do , ask questions about that experience and look at how they respond!
For example, instead of asking my girlfriend if she likes hot chocolate I would rather tell her about this new hot chocolate place that I saw. As I'm telling her about it I would look at how she responds.
If she came across as enthusiastic then I would take her there and she'd like it. If she came across as bored or non-chalant I would skip the hot chocolate date.
You can use this strategy with any part of your relationship. In bed you can use this type of questioning to spice up your sex life!
Note: If you're embarrassed about it, you can always say that your good friend "John" or "Ginny" (only close friends share intimate stories with each other so it makes it more credible) told you about such-and-such. How she reacts to 'their' stories is just as valid.
Spice Up Relationships by Listening to Your Partner!
When I say listening, I'm not talking about what they're saying. I'm talking about look at their bodylanguage, the context behind what they're saying, etc...
It's possible that your partner is enjoying your relationship and you don't need to spice it up at all. On the other hand your partner is very closed off in which case it could mean that you need to do something now!
That also means dropping the ego. The hardest thing to do is to admit that something is wrong! If you're having a hard time accepting that your relationship might be in trouble then I recommend talking to your friends about it.
Friends can be the best people to talk to for seeing your relationship objectively. You see, if spicing up relationships in this case isn't working, then the damage or the boredom might be so much that humor and a good time won't save it.
Understand that the 'spice' is not the 'main ingredient' to the relationship. In any case being someone who is funnier, who can figure out what his/her partner likes and who is humble enough to listen to the relationship's feedback can rest easy in knowing that the relationship is in good hands.
